A write up from 2009 which was a big part of my life was this one on "Maintaing your relationships both with your Love and your girls!" Recently I have come to that point in my life where I have realised how much it means for a woman to have her girlfriends by her side.
When in a relationship it is so easy to focus all your time and energy on your partner. It sounds draining though, and what about time apart to spend with your own friends? Like a guy needs to have his space and time alone to spend with his guy mates - watching rugby and socialising etc… Likewise a woman also needs to have time to herself where she can go out and spend time with her girlfriends.
Woman love talking – that’s a proven fact! Men are the opposite though. When a woman gets home from work all she wants to do is talk about her day with her partner but a guy when he gets home from work wants to sit down on the couch and relax for the next half an hour or so with no talking. This is just one of the many differences of both men and woman. A woman she needs to have her girlfriends in her life in a different way that man has their mates. For me, I need to have the support and friendships of my girls to fill that little space in my heart. The kind of friendships where you know you can sit down with your girls, be yourself, not be judged or hit on if you were talking with guys and talk about absolutely anything and everything knowing that they will listen and give feedback in return. I love my girls and the friendships that we have together. They are a big part of my life and I am so very thankful that I have some good true girl friends who I can turn too no matter what time of day or night it is! My New Years resolution is to continue to maintain my girl friendships forever!!! :-)